Love is a servitude.
In my opinion, a relationship/marriage/partnership is NOT 50/50. It’s not give and receive.
Love is giving a full 100%. You give all you can, whenever you can, as much as you can, for as long as you can.
“True love is one-way traffic. It’s a pure flow of giving and expecting nothing in return. Anything else is a contract. Notice how whenever you allow love to flow you are always clear, calm and strong. It is only when the thought arises, “What have they given me in return?” that there is confusion and resentment. Ego transacts, love transforms. Life is too short for all these meticulous contracts and transactions. Remain clear, remain bright, and remain strong. Love without expectation.”
The secret is to have someone on the other end who feels the same. Who also gives 100%.