You can’t make something out of nothing.
Any recipe needs ingredients, time and effort. Some of the Ingredients I add to my relationship: respect, love, care, admiration, responsibility, effort, planning.
You have to work at it to make it work. Don’t step into it too quickly, give yourself enough time to gather all the ingredients you’re going to need, to make sure. To ensure that you’re on the right page of the book.
I’ve been adding ingredients to my marriage for 21 years and I recon it’s working quite well.
Love/marriage/commitment is a hungry recipe. You never stop adding ingredients.
But the return on your adding is quite fulfilling as you’ll be receiving as well.